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What is a Frenulum or Toompje?

In this article we will explain what a frenulum is in both men and women. It is important to know that a frenulum is located in several places in the body. The


Frenulum in males on the penis (frenulum)

The Frenulum praeputii penis is a thin piece of tissue that connects the glans to the penis. This thin piece of skin is the connection between the glans and the foreskin. The frenulum contains many nerve endings, making it very sensitive. Touching or stimulating this spot can induce an orgasm. The frenulum is also called the 'Frenulum' in men.


Bridle too short

Some men experience pain during masturbation or penetration. A common cause of this is a frenulum that is too short. This restricted connection prevents the foreskin from moving smoothly over the glans, which leads to pain. It can also happen that the frenulum tears after masturbation or other sexual activity, often resulting in bleeding and pain.

For men with a short frenulum, there is fortunately a solution. Incision and cutting of the frenulum, this procedure is called a frenulotomy. This sounds intense, but this is a procedure that is performed a lot and is not very invasive.

The doctor cleans the penis with alcohol and then administers a local anesthetic. Once the anesthetic has taken effect, the frenulum is cut.


Cut the frenulum yourself

Some claim that it is possible to cut the frenulum yourself. This is probably possible, but at Mr. Stiff we strongly advise against doing this yourself. Cutting your own penis without a medical background or guidance is not the best plan.

Are you suffering from a frenulum that is too tight? Visit your GP and you will be able to enjoy painless sex again in no time.


Frenulum in women (frenulum clitoridis)

In women, the frenulum clitoridis is a small piece of tissue that runs from the clitoris to the inner labia. The structure is similar to the frenulum in men. The role of the frenulum clitoridis is to support the clitoris. During sex, the sensitivity of this small fold of skin contributes to the pleasant feeling and a possible orgasm.


Frenulum behind the lips in the mouth

There is also a frenulum in the mouth. This is the 'thread' that connects the lips to the gums. This piece of tissue can be found in both the upper and lower lip. This is also the place where people can suffer from a canker sore.


Frenulum of the tongue

There is also a frenulum under the tongue. This is the 'wire' that keeps the tongue in the right place in the mouth. In people who experience problems with eating, talking or breathing, it may be decided to cut the frenulum